Your Wife isn't a Hotwife (Till Someone Fucks Her)

Your wife cannot cuck you without you expressing your desire for her to become a hotwife and vice versa.

This is going to cause a sting once I pen it down, but I'm being candid here when I declare this essay to the majority of cuck-wannabe husbands out there: your wife isn't going to be a hotwife to you, not until someone fucks her. Sure, you both might be esteemed swingers-type couple, maybe stag (it doesn't matter how you consider your sexual fun life; the bottom line is, inevitably, you're going to want to gravitate towards becoming a cuckold couple (even being a stag falls under similar entitlement), she still won't become that designated slutwife you imagine, not until you loan her out to have sex with someone(s) unfamiliar to you.

When I use the word 'unfamiliar', I mean someone who isn't part of your immediate social circle. Sure, you can probably entice your wife to screw your best friend; even swingers do that. But hotwife status demands setting up your wife with a dominant figure. Someone foreign to your homestead and outlook, whose mission comprises converting your wife to become a stealthy sexual creature.

You might argue that your wife has already passed that mark. She enjoys having sex and has an assortment of sex toys she regularly plays with; you both indulge in roleplaying fun, and you're forthright with sharing your sexual fantasies. You stay up late watching porn together like you're having a date-night affair—all very commendable and worthy accolades to add to her sexual growth. But what's required to seal the deal involves you both committing towards accepting what being a cuckold couple entails.

Your wife cannot cuck you without you expressing your desire for her to become a hotwife and vice versa. A cuckold circle is never complete until a dominant figure—in this case, you'd prefer a Black Dom/Master—enters the picture to indoctrinate you, but especially your wife, into Black-Ownership training.

Many husbands have a hard time dealing with this reality. They naively assume posting nude photos of their wives/girlfriends on various social media platforms and adult forums, inscribing them with cuckold captions with the intention of them being circulated across the internet by their followers to convince anyone of your wife's preeminent status. Far from it, that's playing safe. Most others would rather divulge lengthy posts in various online forums regarding their cuckold fantasies and wish list, a foremost one comprising of their wives committing some illicit adulterous affair with some unscrupulous stranger without them knowing.

These husbands love talking the talk, but when it involves making stuff happen, they are quick to welch. The same applies to some wives. Am I writing this out of my own experience? Most definitely, yes. I have been stood up countless times by couples wanting to initiate a meet-and-greet, only for such meetings to fall through at the last minute. Yet these same couples still peruse the internet, playing the same repetitive, silly games.

For some of these couples (whether husbands or wives), I can express understanding towards pinpointing several fears that prevent them from taking a bold step. One such fear involves the idea of letting go.

Once a couple initiates their cuckold fantasy into action, and it works positively for them, it would be a tough demand to ever return to the way things were before.

1. Letting Go:

As the saying goes: If you want to know something is yours, best relinquish your hold and let it go. If it doesn't return, then it was never meant to be yours. This isn't to downplay the immediate fear that troubles couples from attempting to open Pandora's Box and realising their incapability to close the lid. But that would be their respective folly, for they should know that once you jump into a pool of water, you're bound to get wet. Once a couple initiates their cuckold fantasy into action, and it works positively for them, it would be a tough demand to ever return to the way things were before.

As most white women aptly declare: "Once you go Black, you never go back". These husbands should familiarise themselves with what it means to become addicted to black cock; such infectious addiction can't easily disappear once the wife becomes indelibly hooked. The same applies to most husbands who become unable to resist the magnetism of submitting to worship a Black Master alongside their wives. Resistance is futile once a couple commits to Black-Ownership, so why fight the temptation?

The only way to fight the temptation is to first recognise it for what it is and make like Barbara Bush in the 80s and ‘Just Say No’. Stick to loving your wife, stick to being a happily monogamous couple, quit posting or soliciting photos of your nude wife, and most especially, also quit demanding to know what it takes to become a cuckold couple. Being a wannabe isn't a ranking; it's like claiming to be a soldier who's never even signed up for basic training.

Another fear involves trust.

A wannabe cuck has to trust his wife to remain faithful towards him as she undertakes the journey of becoming a hotwife.

2. Trust:

This lifestyle carries a large weight of trust to jumpstart its initiation. Without trust, the foundation can never hold. A wannabe cuck has to trust his wife to remain faithful towards him as she undertakes the journey of becoming a hotwife. A hotwife should ensure the trustworthiness of her cuck being loyal and abiding to enable her venture forward without inclining towards holding her back. And likewise, both should input a large measure of trust into the hands of their Black Master to further enlighten them to embrace whatever proclivities that comes with accepting their cuckold values.

There is no overstepping this issue. A cuckold relationship involves three figures; take away one, and it becomes nonexistent. Ensuring you've found the right bull necessary for your wife's hotwife education means entrusting him with arbitrary power over her, including you. You should submit to whatever ruling the Black Master gives when in his midst, knowing it would lead to you first unlearning your mental attitude so you can embrace what's coming.

A third fear couples have to contend with is learning to separate fantasy from reality.

Some husbands would love to partake in their wives' training, whereas their wives would prefer excluding them from her steady workout with her lover.

3. Cuckold Reality:

Wannabe couples are frequently bombarded with divergent images of what being a cuckold couple entails, from easy applications like finding the wife a lover to extremity like turning the husband into a sissy. Whichever preference is up to you, but first, learn to denote what you crave as a couple from what you crave individually. Learn to balance out what aspects of cuckoldry fits with your attitude and what neither you or your spouse can cater.

Many couples are seldom clear about what they desire to obtain out of this lifestyle, excluding what attracted them initially. Some husbands won't mind sissification, but might later realise such wouldn't rest easy with their wife. Some husbands would love to partake in their wives' training, whereas their wives would prefer excluding them from her steady workout with her lover. This couple should properly survey this aspect. As they venture together, their open-mindedness should afford them latitude to change their minds whenever they wish, depending they have a suitable Black Master who is most accommodating to their desires.

The reality is best qualified by this statement: your wife isn't a hotwife till someone fucks her.

Conclusion:

Attempting to suggest your spouse to cuck you, or for him to look the other way, hopefully, while you cheat, it's never the same if either spouse isn't aware. Regardless of how much you pretend online towards wanting to become a cuckold couple, of you daydreaming of your wife/girlfriend getting fucked in your bed while you're at work, the reality is what matters.

The reality is best qualified by this statement: your wife isn't a hotwife till someone fucks her. Whether it occurs in your presence or not is irrelevant, as long as you're aware.

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