Rule of Three in the BNWO Lifestyle
- Damien Dsoul
- Mar 8, 2022
- 3 min read

Never underestimate the rule of three when it comes to this cuckold lifestyle. The rule states that the Nature of Command involves the hotwife with her lover/Black Master, and then her cuckold/sissy-boi occupies the bottom of the totem pole.
Each individual has their own respective desires regarding the cuckold way of life as it pertains to them separately.
The husband gets to admit what he desires for his wife: to see her having the best sex possible from another man/lover, and for her to actualise her sexual identity irrespective of him being her husband. It begins with the husband/cuck became a majority of times, this lifestyle in most marriages is usually begun by the husband. The husbands are the ones who are often laden with the compelling thought and imagination of wanting to see their wives in the arms of another man. How they see their wives responding to another man’s seduction regardless of them being aware or not, tells a lot about how such husbands wish their wives would join in admittance towards this urgency.
The wife’s own desire is what comes next.

For some, sure wives are well abreast about the intricacies regarding this lifestyle even more than their husbands. This is to acknowledge the truth that there are some horny wives out there who are desperate towards wanting to indulge in procuring a lover for themselves, and have no other choice but to seek the approval of their husbands to go along with the plan. How the wife imagines her time spent with her lover should suggest how enjoyable she views this lifestyle, with or without her husband’s input.
Most wives would attest to this, that they usually prefer their husbands’ absence in their lovers’ affairs. Reasons often vary towards this aspect. For some wives, having their husbands around tends to lessen their sexual urges from exploding, while for others, it aids in limiting their husbands’ power, especially when it comes to suggesting what sort of lover is deemed worthy for them. The obvious idea here is power. The transference of power from the husband onto the wife’s grasp means its only necessary that her cuck takes a backseat in her cuckolding affairs.
This requirement might differ for couples who venture into stag/swinging wherein the couple get to participate together as a team. The husband might also take a backseat, but he’s never far from the viewpoint. However the couple have designated their cuckold relationship to comprise of: should she require her hubby to assume a sissified role-play, as long as she wields the riding crop in the relationship. However way that the wife might choose to subjugate her husband, the ultimate desire is her sexual maturity that’s bound to kick up with her lover by her side. However way that her husband/cuck might agree.disagree with the way she goes about it is left for debate.

Have to agree.
During my brief marriage in the 1980’s the pecking order became quiet a thing once cuckolded by a 6ft 6in USAF policeman. My then wife knew I was terrified of her new black boyfriend and would revel in it even if he wasn’t around. She’d often say “can you just” “or would you mind doing the ironing dear” Knowing full well I’d comply as I was terrified of her reporting my dis obedience to her lover next time they met.
This lifestyle dictates that the Black Man is King, the white female is there to please the Black King as His white whore, and the white male is there to serve as the Black King’s white slave. This means that the white male satisfy every whim of the Black King. The white male must submit to chastity and must be willing to carry out extreme acts of humiliation and racial degradation. The white male must also genuinely rejoice when he watches the Black King’s big black cock sliding into his wife’s pussy. This is the role of the white male in the BNWO.
The dynamics of the Rule of Three are interesting to observe on a graph. The husband (usually) starts at the top as the leading influence. The Master and wife, at the bottom together. Then, the wife and hubby become level at the top. Hubby drops slightly, under chastity. Next, the Master starts going up to join the wife. A sharp decline follows with husband and wife, the husband falling faster, straight to the bottom, his wife levels off slightly above him. Whenever the Master is away (falling to the bottom of the graph) the interplay and crossing of the owned couple's lines will be unique to them - OR permanently separate if the pecking order is correct.
I loved the article. It very nicely spells out the role of both the husband/boyfriend as well as the Black lover and what is also expected of him in this relationship. (Not me in the pic,but it symbolizes the attitude of many of us white girls) ;)