Spoiling is a topic near and dear to my heart and a way I try to kind of make up for my short comings sexually as a husband. Obviously my wife loves this change/evolution in our relationship. We have a common account plus our own personal accounts for things that are elusively for ourselves. And both do reasonably well enough with white color jobs to have extra money to do this.

She is free to use my card that I pay from my allowance to cover those spoiling type things. She never pays for her own manicures/pedicures for example. She never pays for her own bras, panties, night gowns etc (though this is partly her supporting my kink) but it benefits her so she loves it. I often pay for shoes or new outfits too if they are the more fun, date night type ones just so she feels sexy.

Said elsewhere, but she does also deny me sex and we try to greatly reduce my orgasms. So I do tend to "thank" her for helping me go longer times. Typically by week 5 or 6 without I agree to just about anything she asks. She has her eye on a Louis purse as November comes closer to an end. Though I'll probably need to go well into December too so I don't cum and regret that right away. Lol.