Would you rather expose your wife if you returned home and caught her in bed with a black man . . . Or would you rather she admits her intentions to cheat on you prior to her attempting such?
We think cheating is wrong. We feel open and honest is the only way a relationship will last.
I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked. She wouldn't hide it from me. I would love for my wife to tell me when it is happening too.