Hello,
For some time now, i have this fantasy of sharing my wife with another man.
We have been married for almost 20 years and we have 2 children.
We both like afro culture (people, music, food,...) and It turns me on terribly to imagine her taking a bbc.
I told her about my fantasy 2 years ago now. She was a bit confused at first, and she told me she could never do that. After talking about it 2 or 3 times she told me that she could accept a massage without going any further.
But I feel that the idea turns her a lot too. She's just too shy to admit it to me. We bought a realistic black dildo a when we play with it, she get several orgasms and her pussy is sooo wet... I know her well and I know that she wants it very much. It's hard to explain...
I know that if the opportunity presented itself, it would not take long for her to take it in her mouth ๐
But every time I talk about it a little more concretely, there is a blockage. Once she answered me "Let's imagine i say yes. And what? You will look for a man on a dating website? No way!"
She doesn't like to watch porn, and above all, i don't want to force her. So i don't know what to do...
I really wish the desire would grow and she would dare to tell me.
Do you have any advices? Or should i just forgot about it?
I also have some concerns about regretting it later. I love her and the goal is just to have fun and break the routine. I certainly don't want her to become a queen of spades or something. I don't even like the term "cuckold", that's not how i see things, and i intend to continue fucking her for a long time, but no matter, it's another topic ๐
Thanks
The fact that she didn't shut you down when you told her about your fantasy, means there is hope for you. Don't believe all the stories about how their wifes jumped at the chance to be with a black guys. I'm sure it happens, but not as often as people (men) write about it. It takes time, sometimes, as in my case, a long time to convince her to go black. 1st step is getting her to watch IR porn before having sex. Slowly, and I mean slowly work up to talking about it prior and during sex. Hopefully she will warm up to the idea and beggin to enjoy the fantasy. Eventually get a black dildo (not huge) and work it into your sex time. Remember, this is a huge thing for most women t have sex with someone other than their husbands. She has tt know you accept the idea and encourge it. Good luck!
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How to approach this subject to a wife is often a delicate issue. Already, she has given you hints in your words when she said if you'd look for someone in a dating site. The ought to tell you everything regarding your approach. Find a man who would come as a friend to her, not as an unknown figure.
Try to very gradually get her interested in the gloryhole world. Make your own at home, make it real between two rooms, just for the two of you. When she's feeling hot, keep her waiting for you to poke through. She will find it hilarious at first, maybe silly. Talk to her, as she sucks you on her knees, get her imagination going. Surprise her with the black dildo, and tell her it could be real and she wouldn't have to meet anyone face-to-face. She may be, by then, willing to look at something like gloryholevoyeur.com. With small steps, it's achievable even if she backs out (sorry for the pun!) at first. Find a safe one and assure her that you have condoms if she's worried. What has she got to lose?