What would be your response should a Black man came onto your wife/girlfriend in public, and you witnessed her respond accordingly to his charm? Would you find such moment threatening, or would you welcome the interaction and hope something might prosper out of it?
I would be thrilled and excited to see how it played out. I would be deferential and maybe appear oblivious at first. She knows it would be up to her...she needs more than I can provide sexually.