I am curious to know how intimacy has changed in your marriage after you went black. Or what do you see changing when it happens?
Sex likely is out for us as it would be a total waste of time when wives could be with better Black men. It is wildly inappropriate for white husbands to enter their wives.
What about kissing? Does that change? Is passionate kissing reserved for Black men only? What about all kissing?
Are parts off her body off limits to you to even see now even when getting ready for bed or showering? Should her pussy only be visible to Black men who get to use it?
What else changed? How do you maintain some intimacy and closeness while showing proper deference to Black men?
Our intimacy actually increased in the beginning with husband, but then it got more serious with Mike and our dates became more frequent. Once we went from monthly 1-2 to weekly 1-2, that was a big step. I’m anticipating the dates and want to hold off until I’m with him, but I also started feeling that Mike would prefer it if husband and I wouldn’t have intercourse any more. I felt strange about this at the beginning but I’ve been reading up on it and it kind of started making sense. I’ve been black only since we opened and I guess it has came to the point where it has to extend to the sexual intimacy with my husband too. We’re still in the process to adapt to this change.