Hi, I'm Jeff: Thanks for letting me post. I filed for divorce from my wife of nine years after catching her the second time having sex with black guys. I offered to forgive her the second time, but she told me she was not going to stop. She would go out with her girlfriends who were all having affairs with black men. One of the husbands of my wife’s girlfriends was an acquaintance of mine. We had lunch together, and I told him about my wife’s affairs and told him his wife was also having affairs with black guys. To my surprise, he told me he fully supported what she did. I had a second meeting with this man, only this time his wife unexpectedly showed up with him. She told me I should feel so lucky that my wife was doing this. I told her I did not agree and that I considered my wife having sex with black men to be a horrible violation of our marriage vows. She told me I was a bigot and that I was so naïve. Later they emailed me links to websites that I was to review to gain a better understanding of my wife’s behavior. They said to review these websites thoroughly before the divorce was final. One of those websites led me to you. I do have a better understanding now (I think), but I am still not sure what to do. Thanks for listening.
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Hi Jeff white husband. I have read all of your messages on the forum, and it sounds like this other couple will offer you very good guidance. The hardest part of going through with this will be getting passed your pride and accepting your humiliation as a cuckhold. I realized at an early age that Black Men were genetically Superior to me. Once I realized this, I was able to accept what I was, and it came natural to be a servant to white women who served Black Men.
Thanks again for your help and support. This has been a very difficult and confusing time. I read the comments on this forum and I have continued to do research on this. In my first post, I said I had talked to a couple who practice this lifestyle (the woman is my wife’s friend). The couple encouraged me to lighten up and let my wife enjoy herself with black guys. Yesterday I sent an email to this couple asking for another meeting to discuss my and my wife’s situation. I received a return email today where they agreed to meet with me a second time for a discussion. They said they will give me the date and time tomorrow or the next day. Again, thanks for your input on this forum. I am very nervous about the second meeting, but I think it will be okay. Thanks again and I hope everyone is doing well.
My current wife is currently feminizing and I have never been happier!!!
I am hopelessly converted!!!
Please, please put on a pair of panties and a bra and try being feminine! You will definitely enjoy it like I do!!!
You must give it a try. I am definitely feminine now and have not been happier! It is something that you must experience to enjoy! Please let me tell you that to be feminine is an unrealistic experience! This feeling is unequibatele in the world! Please try it and tell me that you don't enjoy it!!!
Thank you so much for your input. When I met with the couple and then followed up on their website links, I must say I was shocked, and I even felt repulsed. But it also stirred something inside of me, otherwise I wouldn’t have kept looking. I now have a pretty good idea of the changes I would have to make if I want to stay with my wife. I don’t know if I could go feminine. But I really do love my wife, so I might be willing to at least give it a try. I have to say also that the couple I met with seem blissfully happy, so maybe there is hope for my wife and me.
You as well need to share your desires with other couples, and ensure that they, too, strive towards becoming a part of this lifestyle. Black-Ownership is something all white couples should learn to accept.
Instead of divorcing your wife, why not set down your pride, and try to know this side of her that you were unaware of until recently. That would save you a lot that seeking a divorce and starting all over once more.
Instead of divorcing your wife, why not set down your pride, and try to know this side of her that you were unaware of until recently. That would save you a lot that seeking a divorce and starting all over once more.
I would be ecstatic if I were in this position. My wife is currently feminizing me which makes me happy as I absolutely adore being feminine. I would love for my wife to continue down this road and make me a true sissy cuckold!