I was into black men long before my wife, and it took a long time to convince her, so those of you wanting to get into the lifestyle, don't get discouraged about how long it takes. My wife is purely about the sex. She loves sucking their cocks to completion and getting fucked. We're not young, but in our early sixties, both in good physical shape and attractive people. I'm the one into the whole cuckold, jack of spades scene, and my wife knows it. I think it took her a while to wrap her head around it, but once she realized how much I was into it, we also maintained a "normal" life outside this, she was good with it and now enjoys watching and helping me fulfill my desires.