My wife and I are black owned and have been since last spring with same bull. We have discussed this and want to get out two oldest daughters involved in the lifestyle with same bull at his time. Both are of age. We have discussed with him and he is 100% open to the idea. We just have no idea where to start. Any experience to share or suggestions would be appreciated. BOth girls are of age and already sexually active but with white boyfriends.
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That's a delicate introduction to your daughters, more complicated by their ages. Along with describing who Mom and Dad really are. My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years, but our daughters were younger, 12 and 13 when we started. And it took years exposing them to having older black men visiting us. We kept it very vanilla, just like a friend visiting. But when they reached 15 and 16, we knew we could start introducing more of the dynamic between us and our Bull. We first let them see that their Dad would be subservient to him, subtly at first, like our Bull telling their Dad to do something for him. And see me stay sitting close with our Bull. Once they saw this consistently, I purposely let them see me kiss him goodbye. And that finally motivated our youngest to ask me about it. We all sat down (w/o our Bull) and shared that he was a very special friend of Dad's that has also become my boyfriend. Thank god we took years to expose them to older black men, because shockingly to us, they both suspected this for awhile. Young girls watch a lot of porn, believe me, and they know this lifestyle. They know the verbology, and their questions were more about understanding Dad's feelings in all this. He let it all out, but always reassuring that he was their Father first, always will be, and will always be there for them. Little by little, we introduced more of the dynamic with our Bull (and his friends). The girls are now 18 & 19, in college, and have black boyfriends.